hope this doesn't matter but im not a mom I am a concerned father that loves and misses my son terribly

Kenneth - posted on 06/02/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I had a terrible motorcycle accident and is out on disability at this time..so I have raised our 3yr old from day 1 as his mother went back to work when he was 6 weeks old...about 2 1/2 months ago she was working a temporary job in Tennessee when she took a more long term position.and we live in Georgia. ..apparently she hadbbeen cheating and spending all her time with an man she worked with while I was at our home taking care of our son. ..when she came home she says she took the job and was taking our son and moved to Tennessee directly in with this other man who she has known for just weeks.thats moraly wrong in most peoples eyes...and also she has joint custody of two other children with her exhusband which she gave up and left behind because obviously this job and other man was more important. .now sheshe's refusing to let me see our son or even let me know how his welfare.our sons whole world. .his entire family even her side are rite here in Forsyth Georgia. .his grandparents. .brother and sister. .everything he's ever known. We aall have the means. willingness and obviously the love and attention my son deserves and she doesn't. ..she put him in a daycare for up to 10hrs a day w strangers. .he didn't deserve any of this. .nor did we...ive had her served..for one to legitimize him..even thoughiI have been there from day one through every Dr visits. ..the birth...signed birth certificate and he has my last name. We were engaged to be married. ..she had 30 days to respond to the papers which also mentioned mediation for custody. .but even I know that will not work with us living in separate states...considering all ive said and keep in mind her other two children whom she gave up her 50% of her custody arrangements. .what are my chances of getting custody and bringing my son back where he belongs

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Jodi - posted on 06/02/2014

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Keep record of the times you have contacted her to see your son and she has refused. In fact, I would use text message or email as a form of communication and save her responses to your requests. Don't stop attempting to make arrangements to see him. If you have evidence that she is keeping him from you, she will most likely lose custody due to parental alienation.

Amy - posted on 06/02/2014

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Honestly get yourself a good attorney, it's not going to look good that she just up and left without taking care of custody/visitation beforehand. But it really depends on the judge.

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Kenneth - posted on 06/02/2014

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Thanks Jodi...I can't say i gave up. .but neither times that I have asked 2 see him..or even just something as simple as asking how he is doing ir who is watching him while she is at work 10hrs a day..she hasn't said one word back So ofcoarse I am worried sick about him and actually even her..I don't know if they are ok or anything..i do have a bad habit of deleting messages from my phone every so often which now I regret..but besides me..his grandparents. .my sister. .my nieces all have tried also and she has declined to respond...emails. .text..even Facebook..I don't wanna seem like I am harassing her..I knew after
She was served if she hasn't responded by now she wasn't going to,so I did stop to a point..I did right all this down on calender though..I really appreciate the responses I am getting considering I am the father and not mother. .that means alot ..and I originally wasnt gonna try to take him from her in fact I wanted to mediate the issue between us but she refused that also

Kenneth - posted on 06/02/2014

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Thank u Amy for respondin so quickly. .I have hired an attorney.,pretty soon after she left..MY attorney already filed the necessary papers and my ex has already been served..I honestly didn't think she would even remotely keep my son from me considering she had no doubt I was in her words" an awesome father not only to our son but her other 2 kids as well"I would think any mother with good morals would b very happy that I want to take responsibility and be a big part of my son's life. ..I really thought when she came back to Georgia to see her other two kids she would let me spend the time with my son. .but she actually I guess got angry when she got those papers. .surely she didn't think I was gonna sit back and let her dictate when and how much I was going to see my son...I guess the way I seen it is if the shoes were on the other foot sorta speak. .I would expect nothing less out of her fo. doing exactexactly what I done..I would be tickled she would want to be in his life as much as I do. She will always have a place in my heart because she is his mother and I would not ever dream of keeping the two of them apart. .Kameron deserves nothing less but to have both of us in his life as much as possible. ..Am I wrong for seeing it that way

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