Megan - posted on 05/29/2011 ( 16 moms have responded )
As I see it among alot of my clients people I help, I see it more that people use children as pawns. Pay your child support and I'll let you see the children! or .....I dont like the girlfriend/boyfriend your with -My child Isn't going over there !! Or I dont want your family around our children!
I have heard alot and dealt with alot as well. Give and take, either from work or my own life. I am a BM of 2 b.c. (bio children) and SM to 3 (full time) so 5 altogether. Its really hard struggling with EVERYTHING. I see it everyday people use their children as leverage to hurt the other parent. Have you seen this done to you or your dh? Friend/Family?? Wasn't sure if you know what Im talking about. :/