How can I forgive what he did?

Cinderella - posted on 01/25/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I just found out that the Father of my child (5 months old), whom I live with had cheated on me with his ex during the first 2 months of my pregnancy, and has been talking to her sexually up until today. I talked with her on the phone, and she told me everything, and I'm so sad. He agrees to go to counseling and says he'll change, but how can I trust him again? How can I ever believe anything he says?

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Cinderella - posted on 01/26/2014

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Thank you so much for responding!
I met him June 2012, and we decided to have a baby in November 2012, he met this girl in November 2012 right after we got pregnant. He said he just didn't care, was being stupid, blah blah. I called her because I saw a text to her asking for sex, and I wanted to know if they were actually having sex. She said they stopped in January 2013, a year ago, but still talking via text. She said he has been texting her, but she does not want him because he's cheating on me. I don't blame the girl, I blame him, she was just as deceived as I was. I never thought he would cheat because he always said how much he wants a family, and just the way he was so happy and pleased with me all the time, I would have NEVER suspected!

Ev - posted on 01/25/2014

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I am sorry to hear this. Can I ask when you met him and how long you two have been together? Did he say what promoted him to do this? And why did you speak to her at all? That would have been the last person I would want to talk too. Is he known for cheating otherwise?

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