How can I make hubby understand that I don't want to move (PCS) again?

Lily - posted on 04/05/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




I have been married for 9 years and have a 3-year old son. Hubby has been talking a lot about moving again. He has been in the service for 15 years so after next year, he will move one more time and then he can retire.

I have a job with a decent salary ($50K+ per year). I really don't want to move again because I can't guarantee that I will make the same amount of money once we move.

Hubby has been threatening me that he will keep our son if I don't want to PCS with him. What should I do? Any advice?


Jodi - posted on 04/05/2014




It sounds to me like he is giving you an ultimatum about your relationship? Are there relationship problems? It certainly sounds like this decision is about money rather than your relationship together.

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