How can I trust my husband again after he lied about porn?

Lizhel - posted on 09/28/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My husband been watching porn everyday , and I am curious why he using the bathroom for about 30 minutes to 1hr.
I caught him in this morning that his been watching porn and he share it to his gmail.
And I ask him why his watching porn eveyday even after we having sex... And he denied it and he suddenly get mad at me and change his passcode in his iPod,,,
I told him I just wanna know why he watching porn eveyday and I said maybe he need help About it.
Please help I don't know what to do...
I appreciate your answer☺️
I hope you understand my English, because I don't speak English very well. Thank you 😊

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Sarah - posted on 09/30/2016

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I disagree, this is an issue that can be resolved within the marriage. To go to the pastor over your husband looking at porn? Seems extreme to me; depends on the marriage.
ETA did you ever discuss this with him in the past? Did you ever agree that no porn would be permitted? If this is a faith related issue, then address it from that angle.

Therese - posted on 09/30/2016

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I can only imagine how you’re feeling at this discovery.

Do not be surprised that your husband denies watching pornography. Regrettably, he has turned God’s beautiful creation (sex), into something ugly, selfish and damaging. I want you to know that this is NOT your fault. It is your husband’ sin and responsibility.

But your husband must admit to the seriousness of this immediately and get help. This is not a battle that he can fight alone. If he will not stop, then tell someone immediately no matter how upset he may become. Do not think of it as hurting him, believe me, you are helping him more than you will ever know. Perhaps you can tell your Pastor or a close friend of his who can confront him. He need to seek a professional who can help him.

I encourage you to also speak to someone-a Pastor or counselor, who will give you the support that you will need in dealing with this situation, with forgiveness and with restoring your marriage.

Most of all, I encourage you to pray for this situation as it is a Spiritual battle that you are both facing in an attempt to destroy your marriage. Your husband needs to learn how to be intimate with God before he can be a good husband and a strong man.

God Bless you.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/29/2016

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If you have a healthy sex life, no concern is needed.

😊 Your English is very good, by the way!

Stacey - posted on 09/28/2016

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Most men indulge in porn. I think you just probably caught yours. I woudn't worry about it.

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