how could he do this :(

Jazmin - posted on 08/29/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )

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my kids father has been not good.

well he move to Chicago because he wanted to get help he started going to AAA meetings with hes father but before he left the first time we talk he told me once he settle and was able to provide for us he was moving us over with him, but it was all a lie i was hurt that he left, and after a month he came back for court issues before he left about 3 weeks ago and he had told me he was coming back in the beginning of September for court and for my birthday well on Monday he had txt me saying he was picking up the babies that hes been her he got hes plane tickets early and i told him it was ok... when i got back from work i was outside trying to call him but hes phone was off



well next thing i know i notice a car coming in and it was a damn girl with her son and my kids with my baby daddy omg my heart broke i couldn't believe what i was seeing my kids father had my kids around a bitch when i was thinking all this time he was her for us i acted like i didn't care but deep inside i was so hurt the next day we needed to be in the hospital at 5:30 am for my son surgery and my babydaddy picked us up in the girls car i was hurt but i still acted like nothing was going on until i got on my facebook and he started posting pictures up off my kids with her son and videos of her with my babies that smurf killed me so bad !! once we left the hospital we got into an argument i broke the girls mirror and door handles of the fact the my baby daddy was disrespecting me in my face brought my kids around a damn girl and to my house and post smurf up on facebook he lied to me again i feel so hurt!!

how could he do this to hes family!!

and he could never be her for hes family and now hes with a girl with a kid that ain't even hes and he cant even provide for my kids!! before he left he told me to put my money inside hes bank account so i wouldn't lose it and that was gonna be our trust for our relationship to help us but he lied he don't want to give me my money back how could he hurt me so bad!!!



i love him i just wanted my family together

i want him to regret this!!

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Dove - posted on 08/29/2012

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I understand wanting him to hurt for the pain that you are feeling, but it won't help anything at all. All you can do is pick yourself up and make a life for you and your kids without him. He is still their father and you will still have to deal with him on some level for the rest of your life.... Better to not show him how much you are hurting and that you will be just fine without him.

Michelle - posted on 08/29/2012

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The best way to deal with it would be to walk away. Don't show him how upset you are because that just feeds his ego.

Jazmin - posted on 08/29/2012

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I know i reacted over the way he was disrespecting me in the car but her car was falling apart either way i try grabbing something hard and it came apart but i know this was a big mistake

im just so hurt :(





i want him to regret this

Dove - posted on 08/29/2012

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Vandalizing his girlfriend's car is probably not the best approach....



I'm so sorry he's hurt you like this. I definitely would not trust him again under any circumstances.

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