Lana - posted on 12/11/2013 ( 9 moms have responded )
Heres the deal I am on the mini pill. This pill requires that I take it EVERYDAY at the same time to be effective. Missing pills makes this BC COMPLETELY ineffective. I have missed SEVERAL pills over the last 2 weeks. My husband wants sex almost daily and he doesn't like condoms. He says he can't feel anything, and condoms aren't for married couples. We have tried SEVERAl kinds including the female condom and he doesn't like ANY of them. I tried asking him not to cum in me and he gets mad. He keeps calling it selfish because he doesn't get to finish. He complains that sex was meant to be without restraints and what is the point of being on birth control if I'm not going to trust it. At this point I have COMPLETELY shut down and we haven't had sex in 3 days. We live at my mothers house with our 1 year old unplanned daughter with 3 years of college left before we can afford to move out. Some one PLEASE explain to me how I am selfish for not wanting him to cum inside me? We have NO money, ONE unplanned child (he has 2) and not to mention WE LIVE AT MY MOMS!! This is ridiculous. Someone tell me something!!
This is NOT a debate. If I catch you all arguing or belittling me I WILL CLOSE THE POST!