Lydia - posted on 08/05/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
My daughter's dad say's he want's to be in her life. But has not been for over 2 month's and still cannot give me any sort of schedule we can use to co-parent with... He claims he wants to take care of her but every time I ask him he just says he doesn't know, then I get frustrated because I feel like he doesn't care,, and we starting arguing about past incidents that have happened between us not even having anything to do with our daughter. Then I am ignored for weeks at a time, while I have my daughter.. And he doesn't call to see her or even check in on her. If I could I would take him back just for her but that is not going to happen because of the hurt we have put in each others lives.. It's very frustrating trying to be a bigger person and him giving me no feed back as to what he can do to start being in her life. I do everything and he does nothing, he doesn't see me taking care of her constantly and how hard it is to maintain school, work, and taking care of a one year old by myself.. I wish we could get this co-parenting right that way he will be in her life almost as much as I am and see that it's not easy and maybe treat me with a little more respect and give her what she deserves from her father..