Summer - posted on 03/07/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
I have an 11 year old daughter, she's on her second boyfriend, has had her second kiss. She wants to go to a movie with her friend and their boyfriends alone... I told her she can't go out on "dates" until high school.. So, I occasionally check her text messages (is it even right for me to invade her privacy like that?) and I found that she told her girlfriend to lie to her mom, and say it's just them two going to the movie, so when I talk to the other parent, we would both have no idea about the boys going to the movie as well. I did confront my daughter on this. I'm not sure what to do to stop the lieing and sneaking in the future. Or even a punishment...Oh the tween years!! Any advice??