how do i deal whith my babys daddy making my son less than his other two oldes son

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Jodi - posted on 01/19/2014

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If you aren't married, and you aren't living together, you ARE a single mum. He is just stringing you along. File for child support - he should be helping you out financially at the very least.

Rochelle - posted on 01/19/2014

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I've been single for 10 years... Why? The first sign of a friend or anyone showing interest in me that insulted my child or disrespected my home, my rules or my son and myself, I showed them the door immediately. I never waited to see if they would change, people rarely change, and if they do it once, they WILL do it again. Prior to the ten years I allowed people use me, treat me badly etc because I thought I wasnt worth more. But I am. Walk away and dont look back. My and my sons life have been the better for it. Zero tolerence for nonsense has become my motto. No questions and waiting around. If you're not happy, YOU make the change. Not easy, but well worth it.

Michelle - posted on 01/19/2014

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Hoping for someone to change just puts your life on hold. Do you want that for your child?
Instead of just threatening, you need to leave. The way you are going you are just showing that you will hang around and wait until (if he ever does) he decides he will man up and be a Father.
You don't deserve to live your life in limbo waiting for someone to change when they probably won't, move on with your life and if he wants to be in it then he will have to change.

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Angela - posted on 01/20/2014

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Can't really add anything extra to what the others have said. They're right.

Good luck.

Alejandra - posted on 01/19/2014

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I did alredy but its like he dont get it we been together for 6 years alredy and i keep having hope he will change i i love him but i cant take no more

Michelle - posted on 01/19/2014

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You tell him to buck up and support his child or you will leave him and file for child support.

Alejandra - posted on 01/19/2014

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Jodi well is like we are still dating but dont live together we both work ... but the thing is that i. The only one rasing my son ... i like his kids but i just hate the fact that he will take them anyware and wen they are sick or need something he is their to help but then yet i ask for help and he knows that my son is sick or needs clothing or ect.. and im the one thats is always with him or buying what he needs .. and in a way i feel like i am a single mom if he dont help me with anything he says that he will help but he still dont

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