how do i deal with a cheating husband

Ann - posted on 06/17/2016 ( 6 moms have responded )

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please am so depressed to find out after being with my husband for 19 years i found out he have 2 children with another woman. 7 years ago i caught him cheating, he denied even his family were mad at me for accusing him of infidelity, then after 19 years in marraige i found out he have been keeping another home. what do i do, i have 2 daughters, a student without a job, advice me because am dying in silence

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Anita - posted on 06/18/2016

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Well of course you are depressed! That is one of the most unimaginable hurts ever! I am so sorry that this has happened. I agree with Evelyn - do you have family close who can help? You are in survival mode - you need to keep yourself safe and sane. Do you have a church you can turn to? A pastor who you can talk to? You have grounds to divorce - but is that what you are wanting to do? Have you talked to him? Is he denying the other family? I am prayerful that you are safe and being cared for during this very hard time!! XO Nasvhille MAMA

~♥Little Miss - posted on 06/18/2016

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Actually, it is your home. He can go live with his other family. Change the locks, if you have a garage, get his opener, kick his ass OUT! AND divorce him. Make HIM leave.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 06/18/2016

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He has a whole other family. You leave him. You get as much alimony and child support as possible. I would personally take him for everything he has, but that is just me.

Michelle - posted on 06/17/2016

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Sorry, but only advice is to leave him. Like Evelyn said, go and stay with family to help you through.
He doesn't deserve you!

Ev - posted on 06/17/2016

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I think it is time to take action. Do you have family close by to help you out?

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