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So I met my boyfriend about 2 1/2 years ago and we instantly fell in love. The story may not quite be like a fairy tale but long story short...he was in relationship with the mother of his 3 boys. We now have our own child together and have been living as a family for about a year and a half but even though so much time has passed, his ex and I just cannot see eye to eye on ANYTHING. We have recently gotten into an argument so she refuses to bring the boys over unless my boyfriend is home at the time which is pretty ridiculous because the way I see it is whether she likes it or not, I will one day be their stepmom and she is trying her hardest to keep them away from me. I feel like where it should be getting easier for us, it's just getting harder...I am about to reach my breaking point...what do I do?