how do i find out who on my dad side of the family had a cleft lip and palate but his side of the family wont tell me

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Elfrieda - posted on 06/11/2012

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Does it matter? If it's hereditary, you've got a chance of passing it along. That generation can be weird like that, embarrassed about things that don't really matter anymore. If it's possible that it hasn't passed down to your dad and then to you, maybe you can ask in a less threatening way. Instead of "Who had it?" you could ask "Is the person who had it blood-related to Dad?"

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