how do i get help after a judge has decided to remove my youngest for adoption cant get apeal on legal aid the whole case seems a shamble ther aint no help any were plz help need my children home my other lil girl in foster and she been in 3 different homes 3 diffrent schools in 3 months after being settled for 18 months with my father and being stable in schol with 100 persent attendance

Charlie - posted on 08/28/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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plz help save my two babies from adoption and my lil girl from foster there no help or answers any wear just want get them home is there someone i can go who will listen and help with my case

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Charlie - posted on 08/30/2012

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how to i file all this when no one is listerning im losing the plot trying to get on my feet and stay up cos these has killled me i dont even now were my two baby boys are nto even aload to meet the adoptive parent i need help so bad just want my children home the two boys age 3 and 4 both got told by social workers and myself i was decorating there bedroom what a load of bollox i asked to correct my baby at my last contact just so they new they wernt gona see me again cos they dont understand nothing i feel a failure

Charlie - posted on 08/30/2012

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my daughter went to live with my father as we had bed bugs in the property we was in and she waas at school age as she was missing so much school threw the bed bugs keeping her up we put her at my dads while we sorted everything else out asked social for help they got deeply involved and would go there was no support just interigation now one would listen everything just turned in to a blur and happend so quickly but in slow motion if it makes sence it was like i had been asleep and everything was just falling apart im trying to get it back into court to get back in front of a judge but no luck as for some reason most lawyers who take on legal aid dont want to fight social service the whole way threw the case every solister said what they thought was nneded in court room in fact it was all wrong they gave evidence over wrong its all a mess im trying to speak to david cameron but its our english govement so we got no luck

Chaya - posted on 08/28/2012

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file a lawsuit against state social services, they don't know what's best for your kid. If you can, file a lawsuit againt the judge as well. You should have the right to let your children live with relatives if needed

Dove - posted on 08/28/2012

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Do you have a lawyer? If not... get one. The only ways for your children to be put up for adoption are if you signed away your rights or if the court removed your rights for some reason... but they don't do that without giving you a chance to correct whatever issues caused them to be in foster care in the first place.



My only advice is to get a lawyer asap. If you have not done whatever it is the court has required you to do... get started on doing it. Hopefully if you prove that you are taking the necessary steps.... the adoption stuff will be put on hold.



Though I have to ask.... if your daughter was in your father's custody for 18 months.... where were you?

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