Maureen - posted on 11/09/2016 ( 6 moms have responded )
Hi all my son refuses to get himself work all he simply do whole day is play soccer, walk about the streets and lie n sit around all day. I have yelled, talked like an adult, nagged about everything I did try the response stays the same "yes mom".
A little background he is an only child me and his father is separated not divorced yet. He decided to live with his father. His father spoils him tells him he doesn't need to work as he will work for him till he the day he can't anymore. I have made him resumes to take to places it's still to this day under his bed gathering dust. I've given the hard facts of not working like our parents did in our time. He mentioned coming to live by me, but I know that won't happen because imagine giving up a place where carefree to rules, rules, rules. I dread to think where this carefree road will end up. He will be a father and husband someday, but I do not know anymore I love him to bits, but he needs to woke up and smell adulthood.
So please smother me with advice.