How do I get my 33 year old & her boyfriend + son + dog to move out?

Roberta - posted on 10/21/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




My 33yr old daughter, her 32 yr old boyfriend, her son and dog are taking advantage of my husband and myself. She quit her job, is VERY inconsiderate, irresponsible and a slob. I need suggestions in getting her to move OUT!


Lacye - posted on 10/21/2012




This is what you say:

You have 30 days to get a job and move out. If you are not out by then, you will be leaving my house. You can go live with his parents, but you won't be mooching off me.

Sounds harsh I know, but sometimes you have to be with somebody that just wants to take advantage of you.


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Mardi - posted on 10/21/2012




I'm with lacye on this one, you can put it as nicely as you like......

It was a good idea at the start and it was obviously meant to help them out, but its not working, so you will have to ask them to leave. Give them the 30 days notice with an invite back for sunday dinners or something. But you love them enough to know this isnt working and you want the relationship to last/grow, so they will need to get there own space.

lol you could start bombarding her with out of state jobs, or local rentals, everything you need to do to 'help' her on her way.

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