How do I get my bf/best friend back....

Toughcowgirl21 - posted on 05/01/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )

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My boyfriend and I spilt but he tells me I can stay there and be roommates and be friends for right now but I don't know what I should do to get him back. I love him so much

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Michelle - posted on 05/02/2013

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You need to get some counseling for the abuse so you can move on and have meaningful relationships again.

If you can't trust him enough to tell him what has happened to you then there isn't a future for the relationship anyway.

Toughcowgirl21 - posted on 05/01/2013

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well I been sexally abused my my sons father a 5 years ago and I cant keep a boyfriend and im to scared to tell him the truth about why I wasn't my self when we got together

Michelle - posted on 05/01/2013

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He may love you deep down but it sounds like he's not IN love with you.
I wouldn't be living in the same house if you have split up. That's just too confusing for everyone. The best thing to do is get your own place and see what happens. He may be willing to go back to dating and trying to find the spark again or me may just move on.

You can't make someone love you and if you hang around too much you can do the opposite of what you want and push him away.

Toughcowgirl21 - posted on 05/01/2013

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well hes been really stress with his mom passing away and his sister moving out of state and he really don't have anyone but he did say the he still cares a lot for me and that deep down hes still loves me

Alisha - posted on 05/01/2013

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If he doesn't want to get back together with you forcing it is not going to work. Just give it time. Things may change things might not. Right now you feel like you still love him but that emotion could change too. Maybe living in different homes might be best like taking a step back and really looking at the situation at hand. This may not have been what you wanted to hear but sometimes relationships just don't last emotions change with time for better or for worse.

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