Charles - posted on 08/11/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
I'm not a "mom", I'm a "dad", a single/divorced dad. I'm 69 years old and live on SSI. I have three grown daughters, two of them are on their own, thank God. My youngest daughter is 36. She has two teen daughters by common law marriage. She has a boy 6 and a girl 3 by her first marriage.They are divorced now and their two live with him.
I let my daughter and her two teen daughters live with me with the understanding that after she got a job she would move out on her own. She has an very good job
now and makes good money. It has been three years and she and my granddaughters are still here. I love my daughter and my granddaughters very much. I once confronted my daughter about moving out.I even locked my door and told her to move out, she called the police on me, lied to them. Told them that I assaulted her. The police arrested me and I spent two days in jail. Now, I'm afraid to mention anything about her moving out, I'm too old and too bad health to be in jail.
She bullies me, she's dirty, lazy, she doesn't do one thing to help around the house with cleaning. She doesn't cook for my granddaughters. I have written notes to her asking her to help with the utilities or pay her half of the rent. She just ignores me. I don't drive anymore or even own a car. I have to almost beg her to go to the grocery store for me. When I ask her something or try to talk to her, she ignores me. I have cut off everything except household needs. I don't know what to do.