Erica - posted on 04/05/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )
My husband and i have be together 4 years and will be married 2. He has a 4 yr old son that will soon be 5 that he had before we was together. i treat him like hes my own which gets me thinking that i want a child. i tried to tell my husband that i want a baby and that i dont want there to be a huge age gap between the kids. but all he keeps saying is if it happends it happends.... i asked him last night what he thought and he said that the summer is coming and that i wont be able to go hang out with friends like i usually do and i tried to tell him i can have fun with out drinking and partying but he thinks ill be missing out. i want to conveince him i want a kid.. i have to decide by next week i go see my dr. for my annual and i have to tell her if i want a renew on birth control or if i tell he im thinking of get pregnant? please help me decide what i should do. i know i cant force my husband to have a kid with me that just wrong to do but how can i convience him?