Aupriann - posted on 07/17/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )
My husband works second shift at boeing so he is gone from 2:20 to 11:30 at night. In the mean time I take care of our 1 year old and 4 year old boys. They drive me crazy My youngest always wants to be held or fed or bathed or a movie put on(the same movie over and over) and if I walk away from him he ries, he has to follow me every where. My oldest doesn't listen for anything I tried being calm, time outs, spank-ens, Yelling taking away toys, putting him on his bed. I feel like I have tried everything and he just wont listen. As soon as I turn my back he is getting into something else and making a new mess. Most days by 5 pm I am sitting in my bathroom crying. On top of this I am trying to get daycare so I can go back to work, do our budget and finances, clean the house do laundry and My husband says he would rather be a stay at home parent then go to work. He doesnt under stand how stressed I am and no matter what thinks I'm over exaggerating. I'm 60 pounds over wiehgt my hair is falling out and getting thin, My clothes dont fit me anymore, I never have time to go out with my friends, I have been stuck In our home for two years now and the only interaction I get aside from my kids and this computer is my husband who is not so pleasant all the time. He even gets angry with the kids anfter an hour of being around us. I love him And I want to be with him but I feel like Its time for a divorce. I feel like he takes me for granted and I am only 22. What the heck do I do?