How do i get over your fear that you're going to die during child birth?

Maja - posted on 07/15/2014 ( 9 moms have responded )

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Hello Dear Momms!!

I am very very scared that i will dye during labor...I want so much this baby so i think that something so beautifull cannot happen to me!!!
Please help,is anyone having this feeling,or bad thoughts too?
All the best ****

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Teresa - posted on 07/20/2014

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Your healthcare team will be very experienced in these kinds, or any kinds, of fears. Giving birth is scary and you will feel like there is no way your body can do this, but IT CAN! You will have a nurse assigned just to you who will be there with YOU the whole time. That nurse is there for YOU and will take care of you. This day and age, though your fear is real, the reality of it happening is minimal. Trust your healthcare team and enjoy that baby!

Maja - posted on 07/19/2014

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Thank you for your words,i dont have no one to talk about my fears cause i dont want to worry my husband or mum
i will try i promise
i am scared when i get to the hospital i will get pannic attack,i dont want anything bad to happend
i hate this stupid thougths
i will try to erase them
were u scared at the hospital?

Gena - posted on 07/18/2014

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Really try to relax,its also good for your unborn baby to have a relaxed mother. And talk to them,tell them exactly how you feel. You will be ok! Try not to stress about it. Its normal to be abit scared of giving birth..i was aswell. I was scared that i wouldnt know what to do..they did such a great job at the hospital,they told me how to breath and when to push etc. Also there are so many doctors around,they will help you. But now you should try to forget those stories you read,enjoy your pregnancy and try to relax.

Maja - posted on 07/17/2014

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I am soooo scared!!! So much!!! I want this baby more than anything in world and i just have that stupid fear that something so beautiful cannot happend to me!

I will talk to them ,yes my labor will be hospital

i know that there are good doctors,but i cant stop having bad thoughts.Maybe it's because i read a lot of unhappy,or sad stories... :(



Thank you very much ****

Gena - posted on 07/17/2014

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Try talking to your doctors or midwife how you feel. Maybe they can take some of your fear. If you are going to have your baby at hospital try not to worry,there are doctors there and they are ready for all kind of situations.Try trust them. You will see,everything will go fine. I wish you good luck and that you can relax.

Guest - posted on 07/15/2014

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I think we all have that fear. The only way to get through it, I think, is to live through it.

I was afraid up until I gave birth to my little one, but there was nothing I could do to stop time from progressing toward it, then it came, and I was okay.

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