Amanda - posted on 11/25/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )
My daughter will be 4 on December 1st...on October 15th her father died in a horrible car accident...the last time she saw him was in august when she had surgery otherwise he hasnt called or showen up in 7 months to see here nor has anyone else from his family. I took her to the wake and everything and she understands that he dad has died because of a car accident... since all of this has happened she calls my boyfriend Dad...although before the death of her father she called my boyfriend Dad...has anyone had to deal with any of this and know what I should do for the future when she starts to question it alot. Also his family wont talk to us told us to stay out of it because we didnt care about him before he died why should we know all because me and her father were seperated. Please give me some advice...do I forget his family and how do I explain to her as she gets older so she doesnt hate me....i do know what to do I am a single 22 year old mother and never thought I was going to come across this situation!