How do I handle the heartache of my ex having another woman around my daughter?

Asia - posted on 04/19/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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This is very painful ,the image of my ex and daughter playing family with another woman. To add insult to injury my ex is very disrespectful when this woman is around and doesn't answer any of my questions regarding this person.

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Helen - posted on 04/19/2012

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been here b4 alls i did was ask for him to bring her round wen he picked the girls up so i could meet her and see if she was suitable for my girls to be around ect luckily she was and is i do ave great friendship with him and her in fact she is a friend now as well but the point being i felt better having met her i asked her any questions not my ex and asked my children if they felt comfortable around her ect we have been split up for yrs so hopefully you will one day have good relationship with him and her and all painful feeling evaporate it will take time but persevere huni time is a great healer

Asia - posted on 04/19/2012

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Thanks Louise, that was very well said. My emotions sometimes get the best of me and I'm a worry bug when my daughter is not in my sigh. But I guess I have to trust the fact my ex will.take very good care of our daughter.

Louise - posted on 04/19/2012

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Asia your partner does not have to tell you anything about his new girlfriend and to be honest it is better you dont know. All you need to know is your daughter is safe with her. It will take you time to adjust to the situation and it will be painful. He has moved on and so should you. Make the most of the time without your daughter. Go out and socailise you may meet a nice fella yourself!

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