Sarah - posted on 10/17/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
Me and my boyfriend are somewhat not on the same page of disipline. My 2 and 1/2 year old daughter is showing out. Hitting herself when she gets angry. Even sometimes hitting us. She has the vocab of a 4 year old and knows what to say to really hurt you. I try all dicipline to see what works for her. "time out chair, spanking, talking, take toys away..etc"
none of it works with her. I try to de-fuse the bomb when i noticed she is starting to fuss and get carried away so i distract her with something else. Not all the time does this work. My boyfriend is more of the "stick to spanking" type. Me, not so much. I believe you have to be creative when it comes to children.
im just not having any luck. sometimes i feel like i want to just give up. Especially when she tells me she doesnt love me. I know i cant put too much credability into what a 2 yr old say but its my child, how is that not going to hurt me?
to the moms out there who have been where im at, im asking for your help.
how do i get my sweet darling little girl back?