how do i keep my mind stress free during pregnancy ??

Tasnim - posted on 10/16/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I'm 29 weeks pregnant and I am going through a lot of stress right now.The father of my baby leave me,all the time he give me pain and mental pressure.I cry a lot.most of the time I cry for him.I can not forget him but he says that he don't want me.what do I do ?? what will happened with my baby ?? I don't know..I cry a lot.. sometimes he tortured me a lot sometimes he love me. sometimes he give me pressure ..mental pressure sometimes he physically assaulted me for that I cry a lot..and I have nothing to do then I take stress a lot.. I am scared what will happene to my child .. I can't share my feelings with anyone..It is too much harmful for me but I can't control my emotion and I don't know what will happen next in my life.. my marriage life is only 1 years and my age is 22 and my husband is 32 years old ..

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Dove - posted on 10/17/2012

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Why can't you live without him? Do you have any friends or family ANYWHERE that would/could take you in?



The way he treats you has absolutely nothing to do with love. I'm sorry. My only advice is to get out and get safe, but I have no clue how you would go about that over there. Are there any women's shelters? What are the police like?



I'm sorry. I hope I'm not posting in ignorance. I just know you have to get out, but I don't know how to tell you to make that happen. :( My prayers are with you that you find a way to get out and be safe with your baby!! ♥

Tasnim - posted on 10/17/2012

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I don't know what to do .. I am just waiting for him.. By the way pray for me .. because I can't live without him ..

Anna - posted on 10/17/2012

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that doesnt sound like a very safe environment to be in. pregnant or not and definitely not a safe environment to bring a child into. i cant really help you with what you can do as i know nothing about your country and the support systems there, but i know most countries do have some sort of womens refuge. that does however involve taking the courage to protect yourself and your child and leaving. scary and painful i know. if you really cant leave, emotionally or for some other cultural reason then i wish you strength.

Tasnim - posted on 10/16/2012

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No I'm from bangladesh on of the ASIAN country .. please advice me what do I do ??? I can't leave him .. In fact I can't live Without him .. I love him a lot .. what do I do ??? Please help me .. I'm helpless ..

Dove - posted on 10/16/2012

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Are you in the US? I can only give advice from there and I'm concerned you may be in another country and my advice would be useless.

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