Kailey - posted on 11/19/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )
I left my son's father about four years ago while I was still pregnant. He was abusive to me and used drugs constantly. He has been incarcerated throught my son's life, and only saw him six times before my son turned 8 months. I have never talked about the father to my son, and he has wonderful male role models with my four brothers and my father.
Niw the situation is I'm working on my BA, I have a wonderful job in my field, and I am doing great financially. My son's father has never paid child support, and when my son was about 8 months old I tried to take his father to court so I could get sole custody (I do not want him to be near my son, and I do not care about child support). But he went to prison before the court date, and I didnt know what I could do.
Now that my son is three, his father found my new phone number and text me asking to see him. He said he's off of probation and has a great job. I am livid because I do not want him in my son's life at all. It's been he and I since day one, and I know introducing him to his father will be a radical change in everything, including his learning and development.
What I'm looking for is a way to keep his father away. Regardless if he changed his life around (which is awesome for him if he really has), but I do not want him to come in and take my son away.