Jill - posted on 09/09/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
I am a mom of 2 aldult children who still live with me..I was a single mom for the last 4 1/2 yrs. When I left their dad 7 yrs ago they were ages 12 and 15..in their best interest cuz of school and stuff I left them with their dad..since they have been with me I feel like I have to make up for the 2 1/2 yrs I lost with them.. and have become very over protective with them...always trying to fix everything and such...they are now 22 and 19 and I am just recently remarried and my problem is now at this stage when I should be enjoying a second chance at happiness with my new husband I am having a hard time feeling that I still have to take csre of the kids and it is putting I strain on my new marriage already...what do I do??..how do I let go and let my kids be adults???...how do I stop being a protective mom??/..I desparately need advice..