Cerina - posted on 04/04/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
Family question your opinions please...
My husband just asked for my opinion and I really don't know where I stand. He is the oldest of 4 children at 28 and he just caught his 14 year old sister hiding her BF in her room. We live on the second floor. She is on spring break and has been home alone all week. She admitted to having him there the day before and swore they had not been intimate. He wants to know if he should tell their mom.
He kicked out the boy and made her promise that he would never come over without an adult present and that she would never go to his place. I feel like he should tell their mother. He does not want to lose what little trust she may have in him. I feel like despite her promise she should be punished.
I know the relationship between mother and daughter has been strained. Mom had another baby 3 years ago and remarried this year. Is having mom punish her worth losing trust in the only person she has left to confide in?