how do i move on

Gladys - posted on 04/04/2014 ( 12 moms have responded )

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hello I am Gladys from South Africa I m 26 years old i have a problem of not getting over the father of my baby i feel so much love when im with him but he had been cheating with the lady she was working with while i was pregnant but i found out after 2 years i confronted him because i was staying him and i moved out and found my place but i came back and apologize but he did want anything to do with me the thing that hurt the most i love him while he was HIV positive and i risked my love for him and have a baby with him and had sex without using condoms but still he does not appriciate every life i have risked for us. but im still negative he didnt live me with a disease im happy for that and now his been sick i wanted to go and see him but i feel so cheap after he rejected my apology and refused to let me help him and to come back to his life and i accepted that but i cant move on and i keep on spying him and her girl friend on face book but i read whats the post only and the photos only i want to stop and move on please help

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Gena - posted on 04/05/2014

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You deserve better!You dont deserve a guy that cheats on you and doesnt treat you like a queen. There is a man out there that will treat you with love and respect,the kind of guy you deserve. Be happy that you arent together with a guy that cheats anymore! Move on and take care of yourself..Just never forget that YOU deserve better!

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You deserve better!!! Move on with your life if he didn't realize what he had when he was with u he isn't worth it. Move on with your life and one day he will see that and pry come running back. And all u need to do is hold yr head high and go on with your life. There are plenty of men out there that will treat u like the princess u are. Be strong!!!:)

Sapphir3 - posted on 04/05/2014

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I am so glad that you are negative on all your std checks - I hope you find a decent man who will be there for you and your child xoxo

Gladys - posted on 04/04/2014

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thank you very much i always go for check up every after 3 months im still negative God has been great to me n showed his mercy on me thank u very much dear

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Hi Gladys so happy to hear yr holding yr head high remember u are a princess and deserve a good man who is gonna treat u like one. Be strong and never give up. You baby needs you!:)

Gena - posted on 04/06/2014

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Ps. Sapphir3 i had to laugh,i love how you said do those men come from Pricksville.Lol

Gena - posted on 04/06/2014

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Gladys,there you go!Head up high and be proud of yourself! You will be able to move on,and you will be strong for your baby,and he will realize one day what he missed out on..tuff luck for him ;) You can always send me a private message if you want to chat!

Gladys - posted on 04/06/2014

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hi Dana thank you very much im starting to feel new me now and im holding up my head very high now im so glad to join the group so i had to talk and be releaved n believe everything will be good for me and for my baby i love you all

Gena - posted on 04/06/2014

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You go girl!I hope you have a great date,drink a creme soda for me:) I miss SA!Hope your date will treat you like a queen!!

Gladys - posted on 04/06/2014

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thank u Sapphir3 i love everything u said u encorraged me a lot i love that and Gena thank you so much il b going on a date thursday after a long time i guess it will work out lots of love

Sapphir3 - posted on 04/04/2014

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The saying "Curiosity killed the cat" comes to mind. Before social networking people were able to forget their past a lot easier than they can today.

My advice is to go and get a full health check for you and your child and contact your local child support agency if he's not offering any form of financial assistance because that's not fair, you can't do it all on your own.

I think what you need to realise sweetheart is that he's not man enough for you, meaning he's just wanting to run around like a single bachelor minus responsibilities.

You need a real man. You need someone who will catch you when you fall, not just watch you crash and burn.

Just remind yourself of all the pain he has caused you sweets. I had to do so when my daughter's father and I broke up during my pregnancy.

I honestly don't know where men like that come from - Pricksville?

I'm so sorry that this happened to you sweetheart, but at least you have a beautiful healthy child and you don't have to have someone negative like your ex in your life.

I hope you find someone special who loves you for you sweetheart xoxoxo

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