Kapow - posted on 09/20/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )
I"ve lived such a hard married life because of high expectations from both sides of the families. Culture is what u have to say. Guidelines to be the perfect wife: obey husband, never argue, if he abuse u, let him, listen to your inlaws whether they're wrong, cook and clean for them and never talk back, if ur husband cheats, or if your inlaws make him date another, you don't have a say, you don't have a say in anything, they are in charge of it all and this will make u a better wife.
Anyways, my birth moth always hated me and abused and treated me like shit, so this gave my inlaws the right to use it agains me saying that i can never run away from them because my parents don't want me back anyways. my husband never supports me in any family issues even if im right. My Sister in laws always lies about me telling my husband to beat them up or treat them like shit to the inlaws, and i'll try to defend myself, but truth is my husband can't even back me up, all he says is stfu.. and done deal, he doesn't fight for my innocence. My youngest brother inlaw sexually assulted my 7 year old sister and my inlaws obviously blamed it on my little sister. they even hated my family for putting him in jail. and said that is was the little girls fault. I mean they can't freaking understand that they're at fault, they just keep protecting herself. ON top of it all my oldest sisterinlaw always tries to rad me out, Yes i go hang out with my friends here and there for a drink, and welll post up pics of dinners and drinks on FB, she'll go tell my inlaws and rad on me, SHe'll turn anything i say to her into a bull shit story of lies and nothing that i've even said jsut to make my inlaws hate on me. and my youngest sister inlaw always abuse and hurts my children, she burnt my children with 3rd degree burns and my mother inlaw said shit. and then my oldest sister in law puts the blame back on me that it was my fault the younger sister in law did it cause i didn't watch my children but truth was, i was right there and my baby was next to me and the younger sister yanked my child away from me and burn him unintentionally. Now theres even more drama and chaos cause my father in law is in it too and i bashed on them on face book cause my oldest sisterinalw attacked me there.. so they printed it out and are using it against me.. which is stupid cause i just plainly said that they're full of shit and blame me for no reason..
iono what to do help