How do I tell my fiance that I am pregnant? I have been taking the pill faithfully and found out today that I'm pregnant. We have talked about having a baby and his response was he doesnt want to be 60 when his last kid moves out. Between the the two of us we have five children. He is an amazing man, I dont know what his response will be, I'm scared I will wind raising a fourth child alone. Any advise?

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How do I tell my fiance that I am pregnant? I have been taking the pill faithfully and found out today that I'm pregnant. We have talked about having a baby and his response was he doesnt want to be 60 when his last kid moves out. Between the the two of us we have five children. He is an amazing man, I dont know what his response will be, I'm scared I will wind raising a fourth child alone. Any advise?

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Linda - posted on 12/01/2011

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Be honest with him and tell him as soon as possible. He may surprise you and be happy about it. And even if he's not happy right away, he has 9 months to warm up to the idea. A new life is always something to celebrate. :)

Brittany - posted on 12/01/2011

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all you can do is be honest and tell him... hiding it is no way to go and its a chance you will have to take... if you have raised 3 alone you can raise 4 i know its not easy and i only raise two but if he does love you he will stay and you will work through it just tell him!!

Bonnie - posted on 12/01/2011

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If he truly does love you, you both can work through anything together. Things happen and you just move forward.

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