How do I tell this girl's mom that she's still lying/"dating"?!

Rebecca - posted on 11/10/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My daughter who will be 13 in 5 months and I went to see a movie last night and my daughter wanted pop soda and cotton candy. Reluctantly, I allowed her but mainly I'd say no because it's not good for your teeth and health to eat junk food.

She was slurping her soda when we saw her classmate. Her mom and myself are good friends, and we went to school as kids together. She was ALONE, no parent. My daughter and hers don't "get along" so well, and she says what she calls is in the "popular crowd". She was with a boy who's a year older than her touched her butt and said she was hot and sexy!?!? We didn't want to eavesdrop but they were loud. Her mom mentioned that she caught her sneaking out at night once, and grounded her daughter for "dating", explaining he was a bad influence and that she's too young to date. I don't think her mom knows that she was at the movies because it was very late at night and her mother and I decided to not let our daughters go elsewhere unsupervised and alone until the age of 16. Should I ask her mother if she knows that her kid was at the movies, and if she knows that she was with a boy who she told that her daughter wasn't allowed to date yet? Even if it's none of my business? My daughter says that she wears lots of makeup to school. I don't know what I should tell her parents but this girl has been grounded lots of times for the same situation..,

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Rebecca - posted on 11/13/2014

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My daughter's suggestion was to keep quiet about it for now. I think that's fine w/ us, but we will not deny that we saw her if someone brought the subject up..

Christine - posted on 11/10/2014

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The answer is simple do you want someone to tell u n at the end of the day it's why u are doing it not wat happens

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