Tina-marie - posted on 02/07/2011 ( 6 moms have responded )
My 10yr girl has the run of her birth father's home, & she makes the rules there. Which her younger brother ends up being hurt in the process. But my main problem is: how do I stop her from doing that at my place?
I have rules that both my children have to follow, but sadly my girl throws it back at my face & her step dad as well, by saying 'I dont have to do that' or 'Dad wont make me do that, I do what I want do' (her birth father has brought their love ever since I left him 8yrs ago)
I love both my dearly, but tonight was the last straw, when she said to her brother that dad is not his dad but hers only & that you are nothing to him. And When I confrounted her about this She just said 'I don't care because you don't give me what I want, but daddy does. So he is my dad not his.'
I am at the end of my wit, & I feel like I am going to brake down in a crying heap. As sadly I can see that my boy & husband are hurting in this as well from her acting out in this behavour.