How do you deal with a 20 yr old who is out of control?

Pam - posted on 11/27/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )

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She is rude and disrespectful, despite being given everything. She's had a job and was working before she went off to college. But now she is out of control. The rude and disrespectful behavior has become the least of my worries! Ashe is dating a creep that is actually, at the moment, in PRISON! I sensed he was a loser, and was lying to me so i did some research and discovered there were 4 outstanding warrants for his arrest. I turned his location into the police and they put him back in prison for parole violations. I have found numerous letters she has written to the convicted felon professing her love for him and all her drinking and drugs she is doing while away at college. I don't know what to do. We are not "those kind of people". We are well educated, upper middle class people with good family values. On what plant can she be when she thinks dating a convicted felon and inmate is acceptable? She has no idea I have found and read the letters. I can't think of any way to address the issue that has a positive outcome. I need professional help on how to deal with this that may lead to a good outcome. I thinks college is her only hope but she is close to the house and keeping in touch with the same crowd that drinks and does drugs. First She is rude and disrespectful, despite being given everything. She's had a job and was working before she went off to college. But now she is out of control. The rude and disrespectful behavior has become the least of my worries! Ashe is dating a creep that is actually, at the moment, in PRISON! I sensed he was a loser, and was lying did some research and discovered there were 4 outstanding warrants for his arrest. I turned his location into the police and they put him back in prison for parole violations. I have found numerous letters she has written to the convicted felon professing her love for him and all her drinking and drugs she is doing while away at college. I don't know what to do. We are not "those kind of people". We are well educated upper middle class with good family values.

Her first semester grade for here were not great, two D pluses and one A. I think college is the only hope but I can't throw away 34k/ year. I need to know what professional help can I get to deal with this?

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