Mary Renee - posted on 02/04/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
Ok, so this doesn't involve our kids but it involves grown women and I'm in need of advice.
I live in an apartment and a few years ago a lady moved in on our floor and we became friends. She was going through a divorce when I was having trouble with my daughter's father and naturally we bonded over that.
Anyway, recently she confided in me that she had reconnected with a guy she knew who is married with a young child and a pregnant wife. They "sext" and have cyber sky ping sex on a regular basis. She tells this to me with no regret or remorse, but more like she thinks it's cool, like I'm supposed to be glad for her that she's moving on and getting some.
While I've never done these things and don't know much about them, I don't judge people who do, different strokes for different folks. HOWEVER, the fact that she is doing this with a woman's husband... particularly while that woman is pregnant... is appalling to me. I remember being pregnant. I had so much insecurity about the weight gain and changes in my body an the hormones that I was constantly afraid that my boyfriend would cheat on me, or do whatever that webstuff is.
Now whenever I see this neighbor all I can think about is that poor pregnant woman. I can be polite and keep my mouth shut only for so long. But she calls and texts and I'm concerned because I don't want things to be awkward because we're both going to be living in this apartment building for a long time, but honestly, I am not at all interested in her friendship anymore. I know this isn't entirely motherhood related but I've always gotten great advice from this site that I was hoping for some feedback.