Tonja - posted on 10/18/2015 ( 7 moms have responded )
never married, lost custody to an abuser (emotional type) and he is friends with the judge, i never had a chance. Ive been dealing with this for over 13 yrs and the latest thing is they removed my parenting time first they removed my drivers license from mn then they set a new order stating that I must drive to see her and only i can drive to pick her up. plus they limited my time going from every wed for 4 hrs, having every other weekend rotating holidays, three weeks vacation in summer TO: 2 hours on wed, ho holidays, no full weekends only 6- 8 hrs on sat or sun NO overnights, , and no vacation times, plus the order states that I must arrive alone and must be driving, I have not seen or spoken to my daughter in 6 months, and the last time i did, she wanted nothing to do with me telling me that she had to learn to deal with not having a mom. I am not rich, and between him and judge i have been abused, lied about. lied to, and been punished financially punished ( i pay his attorney every time he drags me into court) i lose, my witnesses are sent home and the judge tells me i do not have a right to speak to him so all my responses and proof are completely ignored. The worst is i lost her and it hurts. I apologize for the mis spelling but as i am writing this i am fighting the tears. I have never been allowed to call her or talk to her and the only time i was allowed to talk to her is only when i had parenting time, so now I dont get to speak to her at all..