Amber Kay - posted on 01/26/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )
The father of my child and I have been separated since my son was 3 weeks. After the birth of my son he changed and became very verbally and started to become physical. Shortly after leaving I placed him on child support which meant visitation. This did not bother me due to the fact I wanted my son and his father to have a relationship. After spending time with his father my son would be excited to see me but recently that has changed. He becomes upset and cries for his father during the drop off. Some times he will kick, bite, and punch me . He usually calms down 10 to 15 minutes after the drop off but it REALLY upsets me. He fathers is claiming I'm a horriable mother because my son behaves like this at the drop off.
I don't understand why my baby would act like this? I know when he is with his father he is usually around 4-5 other child his age ( his cousins) and I'm positive there are no rules/boundaries applied. There are no bed times, he is completly spoiled, and has no structure whatsoever . I spoke to his father about this and he told me what happens during his time is his bussines and not mine. My son now curses and calls anyone he sees a b$$$$. I just dont know how to handle this situation. Just recently as his birthday party he was cursing and his father and girlfriend thought it was hysterical. How do I teach wrong from right when his father is like this? Has any one else gone through this? And if so how did you handle it?
Sorry for any typos I'm using my iPhone to post.