MArsha - posted on 03/03/2015 ( 22 moms have responded )
I am 39 - and I feel an amazing amount of pressure to figure out if I am done having kids by my 40th birthday. There is a lot that goes into the decision - the biggest portion is that I have had 4 miscarriages. The most recent was in October after being shocked that I was even pregnant - overwhelmed with the idea. We hadn't been trying since it had taken so much for us to have our two children, who are 8 and almost 3 years old. And as soon as my heart was wrapped around the possibility - I started bleeding. My husband says "No' mainly because he can't imagine watching me lose another - but I just feel like I am not sure. I can't imagine never ever having another - I need help! Honest feeback s awful as it may be!!