How do you let go of the father of your child

Melissa - posted on 12/22/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




Since my son was born hi father has always been there & we were a family but he still lives by himself having his cake & eating it to I got tired& he just wants to take my son 4 days a week to him home, I said every other weekend now he took me to court & everything is getting messier I still have strong feelings for him don't know why & I know he doesn't love me I think he's with someone & this person may be the cause for change I feel so lost & alone


Jodi - posted on 12/22/2013




Well, he does have equal right to your child. You can't just dictate to him how often he has his child with him. That's why he took you to court. I think perhaps you were mistaking him spending time with his child with wanting a relationship with you. Who he is with now has nothing to do with his relationship with his son. You are going to have to come to terms with the fact that as the father of the child, he has a right to file for custody/visitation orders, and that the judge will decide what that looks like. If he is taking you to court (which I would have done too under the circumstances), you need to make sure you have a lawyer.

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