Louise - posted on 07/27/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
My partner of 12yrs came home last week and told me he loved me but wasn't in love with me and wanted to spilt up. We have a 10month old son. I don't know how we got here its not like we were fighting or had major dramas going on. a month ago he was talking about when we would try for another baby. People tell me "i think he will wake up and you guys will get back together" but thats HOPE. how long do you hold on to hope when everything he says and does gives you the feeling that he's trying to totally eradicate you out of his life. I feel shocked and scared of doing it alone when we had a plan for the future i knew where my life was going and i was happy and excited for the future! In a week i have sorted my living arrangements and a job have and i have asked for a private agreement for child support I'm doing the best i can to take the high round here not getting into a fight or anything i left with only my bed, my sons bed and our clothes. How come i feel like I'm drowning and he's going out hanging with people at the pub like nothing is wrong he doesn't even have any friends they were mine, i was always the one that got us out there doing stuff with people now all of a sudden he's got whole new single life. how long do i hold out hope that maybe i can have my family back together and have my best friend again, i feel like I'm in a life raft in the middle of the ocean no land in site no gps and 1 paddle going round in circles. would it have been easier if i hated him and we had a terrible relationship? then i could have left angry not still loving someone, can you fall back in love with someone? can you trust someone who found it so easy to leave you?