Momma - posted on 03/11/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
How do we teach our girls the importance of loyalty without the "bandwagon effect"? How doe we prevent an "either or" message? Young girls need to understand the importance of supporting each other rather than back-stabbing, but yet have a healthy sense of competition that can inspire fellow girls to reach their potential, so they can be that generation to shatter the "glass ceiling" yet, young girls seem to use loyalty as a way to bully other girls, or as a crutch to hide behind an abusive boyfriend or independence to excuse back-stabbing catty behavior. What is the best way to teach girls the importance of having both without contradition?