how long should i wait to have another baby?

Cleopatra - posted on 10/19/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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im 25 and married woman. i lost my two yr old son (two yrs ago) and i wanna have another soon at least b4 im 30 yrs old. i been dealing wit the loss of my first born son for awhile now im just now startin to get back to the old me. people asked me do i want more kids i said yes i do but they said no u dont need to have anymore. i already talked to my husband about it he said not right now tho which was earlier this yr.so how long should i wait to have another baby?

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Cleopatra - posted on 10/19/2013

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@jodi no we havent. we both deal with death differently. everytime i bought up something dat reminded me of our son he would be like why u bringing it up? or lets talk about something else to get your mind off it. i try hard not to say anything more about him but no matter where i go or wat i do its something reminding me of him. and maybe we do cause he hasnt told me how he felt about it.

Jodi - posted on 10/19/2013

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That is something that is between you and your husband. I am sorry to hear about your loss. Everyone is different. Some people never have another child after such a loss. Have either you and your husband (or both) had any sort of counselling following your loss and your thoughts on having another baby? Maybe this is a step you both need to take.

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