How many chances should i give my son's dad to see him?

Sara - posted on 04/20/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My ex hasn't been around much since my son was born, he is now 2. He wants to see him but it never lasts for long, he is around for a couple of months then takes off again. i dont want this affecting him but i also dont want to cut him out for my son's sake, i dont know what to do for the best for my son. My son isnt speaking alot but after nursery today im sure he kept saying daddy and i didnt know what to do, should i show him a picture and say something like 'this is daddy and he lives in ...'? Up to now i dont really mention daddy but should i be talking about him? Please help, i am new to this kind of site.
Many thanks
Sara

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Dawn - posted on 04/20/2012

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my daughters father was the same way up untill 2yrs ago.....thats when he completly stopped coming around. She's going to be 15 in a couple of months & I have never said 1 bad thing to her about her dad. I figured she would see him for who he really is & make her own oppinion of him, which she has. She misses him but knows he's not a "real"dad. I wouldnt stop him from visiting but make it a surprise for your son so he doesnt get dissapointed if the dad doesnt show.

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