Cheri - posted on 07/07/2009 ( 121 moms have responded )
My husband likes to go to the bar two nights a week and I don't get to go out. On Tuesdays there has been times when he doesn't get home until 1:30. But on Firdays he does respect coming home at 10:30. I do have a big jeolous problem, because he works out before he goes and makes me feel he is doing for girls at the bar. And when I tell him that I might go out with him he gets mad, because he thinks i'm playing games with him and I'm checking up on him. I try and tell him and even letters i've wrote to him. That I would like for us to go out together and do things as a couple. But I don't think he wants to do anything with me. He will sometime take me and my daughter out to a movies she wants to see and out to eat. But I told him I want time with him. My husband is an alcoholic and he will not do much with us not unless it he can drink. I am a stay home mom and I take care of our 6yr old daughter and I tell him I need a break sometime. I told him that I want girl night if he doesn't want to go out with me, but he says i can't go to a bar. I went out last friday, because my daughter wanted to stay the night with my sister in law, but he got mad and thought i was up to somthing, so since he didn't ask me to go out with him. I went out to applebee's and sat up at the bar and had a drink and appetizer, He go mad because I sat up at the bar. He came home drunk like always screaming in my face and told my i crossed the line. He told me he was going to go without me and wait for some girl to come up to him and talk and then the next day he took my key card away from me because I used it to go out. My bill was only like $9.00. He hides money so I can't go any where. My question is how many times would you let your husband go out a week? Plus he will wrap hair around my toothbrush if he finds hair in the bathroom. I keep a very clean house and I do everything a wife is suppose to do. Should I just let him go out Tuesday and Friday, but if he takes the key card and doesn't give me any money where is my time to go out. I'm tired of not get to live my life also. Help!!!