Andrea - posted on 12/10/2009 ( 27 moms have responded )
I am just wondering if anyone else has a sister in law from Heck? My hubby's brothers wife.. She hates me and always has.. It started when we found out we were expecting our son.. Her daughter was also prego. She got very nasty with me telling me how much a baby was going to cost and that i better not be dropping our son off on our mother in law all the time.. ( which i never did she had to call and ask me for him) i am the type of woman who i made this baby and i am going to take care of them not let anyone else do it for me... My hubby now and I had only been together 3 months when we got prego ( wasn't planned but the best thing) we have now been married a year and together 3 almost 4 years... I didn't let her bother me until she got in a fist fight with my hubby at our renewal of vow this Sept. ( we had just lost his mom a week before hand) VERY HARD DAY!!!! Him and I had gotten married the year before so that his mom could be part of it also.. We then had our daughter march 30 09 who was born 4 weeks early with gastroschisis.. ( was first biolagical granddaughter..) My sister in law got very upset over this. She was not nice to me at all after having my daughter.. I feel it was due to the fact that her daughter had a girl 7months before our son was born.. So it took a little bit away from her granddaughter.. I guess what i am asking is anyone else have a sister in law that is just rude.. Her and i have not spoken since our wedding and i will not let her or her daughter near our kids.. Her daughter said she wants me and my kids dead.. nice family right? I know things would be different if my mother in law was still her.. She would not have any of this, or stand for this... I just am not sure what to do I want to be able to have x-mas with my AWSOME father in law and be able to let my brother in law know his only neice and nephew.. Any help would be awsome.. I do not want to have induvigual x-mas's.. would love to be albe to get along with them long enough for that... Just not sure that i can put it all behind me..