Cynthia - posted on 10/14/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
My Ex has given to my leeway in making important decision when it involves our child. They both backed me into a corner to get me to withdrawal my child from her elementary school to put her in his fiancés school because it was convient for them. He said it was for her best interest. I don't see how, if she had to leave all her friends and what she knew to go to a whole other school. Then they wanted to take my kid out of her catholic church to put her in the same one as his fiancés kid. Then the fiancé has the nerve to text me that she was upset because I wouldn't budge to accommodate them. How wrong is that. My ex and I made an agreement 4 years ago on how to raise our child together and now he acts like im little to no importance. I asked him to meet with me so we could discuss this amongst us alone and he says no that we have nothing to talk about if his fiancé who was just a girlfriend at the time isn't present. Ive known him for 6.5 years and never knew he could treat me like trash. I get no respect. I told him that as our childs biological parents that their are boundaries that shouldn't be crossed when it comes to discussing and/or deciding important issues related to our daughter . He has the nerve to say that this woman is in his life now and she has a right to make decisions. Maybe if I were dead but im not. He met this chick in july of this year (2013). Became boyfriend and girlfriend in August 2013 and became engaged in late August and now getting married Nov 1st. I think that for someone he doesn't even know for 5 to 6 months should not have that amount of power. I can care less about them but its affecting the relationship and arrangement the father and I had. His own mother is living with me because she doesn't agree with the person he has become. He is trying to establish a brady bunch environment which is all good but show the mother of your child respect. Please Help.