How often do you and your partner have sex? And how many children/ages do you have? I'm trying to show my husband something ☺️☺️ .

Jen - posted on 02/27/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )

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We have 4 children ages 10,8, 22 months and a 14 week old. Before our two youngest were born we had sex 1-2 times a day. But since my last child was born we have sex once a week. He asks for it every single day. I try to be intimate in other ways besides sex but he gets all worked up and ends up wanting sex when I really can't because I'm cooking dinner or the kids are around.

I just wanted to add that the past year I was my moms primary care giver. She was diagnosed with cancer and I lost her 6 months later and I struggled a lot with that. She was only 54.

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Raye - posted on 03/02/2015

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My husband and I have sex about every other day, but we've only been together a few years. Our two kids, 7 and 10, were from his previous marriage. We get everything done in the evenings and get the kids in their beds by 9pm, then we sometimes watch a show or chat and decompress for about an hour, then it's either hanky-panky or sleep.

My first marriage, we had sex a lot in the beginning, then it dwindled off... no sex on our honeymoon, no sex for the last 4 years of our marriage (and no kids to blame it on). DO NOT let it get to that point. Intimacy is a big part of staying happy and healthy in your relationship. Make some time for it.

Trisha - posted on 02/27/2015

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:) My husband and I used to have sex every day up until I got pregnant. We have a teenager in the house (16 yrs old). I am now pregnant -31 weeks - (gained 40 lbs) and my husbands sex drive has taken a major dip. Now, I have to demand it once every 3 days... He is just tired from work, and can't have sex the same way as we used to (he is a *bit* rough) as he doesn't want to stress me and in turn the baby out.

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