How to approach the fact your husband may be cheating or attempting to?

Laura - posted on 03/07/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )

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My husband had two emails from a dating site in his email one being the member registration, the other being another female messaging him! I became suspicious when he started taking his phone every where and hiding what he's doing when I walk in the room. I'm just trying to figure Out the best way to approach the subject with him before reacting irrationally. Any suggestions?

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Bonnie - posted on 03/08/2012

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It will make it a lot easier for you if you just straight out ask him about it and do it now or this will eat you until you do.

Jenni - posted on 03/08/2012

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I think you're just going to come out with it. Don't tip toe around the subject or allow your emotions to get the better of you when asking him about his behaviour. That could cause him to shut down and not be honest with you. Just ask him point blank. Why did you join a single's site and why are you conversing with other women? Is there something amiss in our relationship that we need to work on?



Hopefully, he tells you the truth and you can work from there. It is completely possible it is just for an ego boost. Maybe he's feeling unattractive or under appreciated. Especially, if this sort of behaviour is out of character for him. Or he could have more deviant intentions. The problem with the first is it can lead to acting on it even if he didn't intend for it to go that far. So it's better you confront him now before it gets out of hand. I think some couple's counseling may be in order.

Amanda - posted on 03/08/2012

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Just ask him straight out why he joined an online dating site, and demand for the truth.

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Laura - posted on 03/08/2012

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Thanks ladies I really appreciate it. And this is the second time he's doing It. first time we were only married for a year and I took his word that he wasn't Doing anything, but it has happened for the second time so obviously he wants something I'm not able to give him. But I will confront him about it !

Laura - posted on 03/08/2012

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Also just found out he put his martial status as single. And I'm starting to feel really sick to my stomach

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