How to approach the stepchild ?

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How have you not met her yet? You married someone without meeting his child?



Sorry for being nosy, just puzzled.

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@melissa_ sure,, i will be patient thanks again melissa :)



@little miss_ i will try it, and i hope it works. Wish she will like me :)



You are guys helps me alot,, thank you so much.. :)

~♥Little Miss - posted on 04/07/2012

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Well, for starters maybe stop referring to her as THE step child, and start calling her YOUR step child. It will make a huge difference.

Melissa - posted on 04/07/2012

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Your so welcome. Just remember to be patient it can be hard for them to open up sometimes.

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Okay, i will try my best,, i wont let her down... I'm a good mother. Thanks melissa, u really help me :) lol

Melissa - posted on 04/07/2012

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Just act like she's another child. Ask what they like to do, hobbies interests. Just make conversation. It's going to be fine. It's not usually the kids you have to worry about the ex wives lol!! It's all good, you got this.

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That's why i asking about this, i dont meet my stepchild yet, i'm just afraid that she dont like me.of course i will treat her as my own child. Thank you melissa.

Melissa - posted on 04/07/2012

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What do you want to approach them about? A child is a child and should not be treated any differently than you'd treat your own children.

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