Mpiloo - posted on 03/30/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
My fiance has two boys from different mothers, I have 1 girl. we do not have a child together. We have been together for 4 years & are planning to get married next year. One of his boys is 5 & well behaved, the other one is 7 & can be very naughty, he usually visit during school holidays, he is not naughty as a normal kid would, this other day he stoned a neighbours water pipe & the yard was flooded. At school, we were told he tripped the teacher on purpose, there's a lot that he does. I just can not tolarate a constantly naughty child, his father does not seem to realise there's a problem, if I try to discipline him, he will have a long face & will not speak to me after a while he would cry so loud complaining about a headache, his father then gives him some pain killers, if i tell him that he's doing that to get some attention, he does'nt agree with me.
My fiance told me that he want the son to stay with us next year because her mother does not take care of him properly. My daughter will stay at home with my mother so I was hoping that the children can only visit us on holidays. I dont know how will I cope next year with the son staying with us full time.